Kontrarie is extremely dominant both personally and sexually, she is the mistress of the house. Kontrarie likes both men, and women, but prefers to dominate, emasculate, and feminize men. Her day job, is running a Government office as a high level bureaucrat in the city, this helps both finance, and conceal, her hobbies of sexual manipulation and dominance. Unmarried and childless, she likes to assume the pose and role of the wicked stepmother in private, and revels in the stereotype.